Pippa's blog

Fairy Tale Chocolate Competition

My fairy tale life would definitely include chocolate, so I'm very excited that we have appropriately-themed chocolate goodies from Fairy Tale Gourmet to giveaway this month!

Win chocolate eggs from Fairy Tale Gourmet with Story of Mum

You could win yourself one of two delicious artisan chocolate eggs from Fairytale Gourmet - and this Easter, you could crack open your very own Humpty Dumpty or steal a Golden Egg from the friendly giants in your house...!

These are eggs to hide from the kids... SO well that you get to eat them yourself ;)

This month is all about fairy tales - and we'll be sharing our stories in My Life, the Fairy Tale. We would love to hear yours - and one of the ways you can enter the competition is by sharing it with us!

Your own fairy tale might be life-changing or silly, small or huge - you choose. Head over here and complete seven sentences to tell us a fairy-tale from your not-so-fairy-tale life...

Our daily battles may not always feel epic, but the truth is, they are.  Most importantly, sharing those stories of how we overcame the scary stuff, (eventually!) reminds others that they can make it through - even if today's quest is simply to tackle the never-ending laundry pile...

You can also enter by tweeting and hanging out on facebook, as you do...

Tale Gourmet are an award-winning company producing hand-crafted and ethical high-end chocolates and desserts, inspired by the literature of fairy tales. Go and explore their website - it's imaginative, original and guaranteed to make you drool...

We look forward to hearing your real-life fairy-tales, and eating chocolate together..a Rafflecopter giveaway

Win a Fairytale Gourmet golden egg with Story of Mum

Start your year with joy at our January Mamas' Retreat

Join a Sunday Morning Mamas' Retreat with Story of MumWe'd love you to join us on Sunday 18 January 2015 for a very special Sunday Morning Mamas' Retreat in Penzance, Cornwall. Come start your year with joy! (scroll down to book your tickets below)

Three years old

We're officially three years old today!

To celebrate, we're sharing a couple of stories from Story of Mum mamas about what Story of Mum has meant to them.

Story of Mum is three years old! Hear how the project has helped mums grow.

We are so proud of reaching three years with you all. And of those brave mamas who are sharing their stories here with us today. Thank you.

We'll also be sharing fabulous old posts, and giving away a DIY Mamas' Retreat Kit on twitter (share this post and cc @storyofmum on twitter to enter), and another one on facebook, so look out for the tweets and posts for more info...!

You can also enter to win one by commenting below and sharing your thoughts on Story of Mum... 

That's 3 fabulous chances to win today!

Last but not least, we're celebrating by sharing the picture of us where we look most pretty, (thanks Pat Kelman!)

pippa and penny best, story of mum - credit: Pat Kelman

“I discovered Story of Mum at a time when I was very low and feeling totally isolated. I suffered badly with PND (post natal depression) and had no support other than my husband.

I felt worthless as a woman, a wife and a mother. Connecting with other Mums online through creative activities and discussion helped me realise that I wasn't the only one struggling and feeling like I was failing.

This was the turning point for me as I was no longer alone but part of a friendly, supportive, loving online community. These wonderful ladies are now amongst my closest friends, several of whom I have had the great pleasure to meet.

I highly recommend every aspect of Story of Mum to women everywhere, to help you feel whole again.”

Kat Pearce

Story of Mum Exhibition, The Exchange

““When, in September 2013, I attended my first Story of Mum event - the Mums’ Make Date at The Exchange, Penzance - I had only recently relocated to Cornwall from the West Midlands.  My daughter had started at her first school in Penzance the previous week, and I knew no-one!  I was feeling quite isolated, and having had severe Postnatal Depression after my daughter’s birth, I knew it was not good for me to feel this disconnection.  The Story of Mum flyer had come home in my daughter’s schoolbag, and I promised myself I would summon up the courage to go along.  My goodness how glad I am that I did!    

At the end of that evening the feedback form asked how I was feeling about motherhood… my answer was clear - “Much better than before I came out”. 

That evening, just a brief but eye-opening couple of hours - was the start of a revitalizing journey for me.  Story of Mum, its honest and open approach to motherhood, and all its various madcap, thought-provoking, soul-searching, celebratory activities, has made such a difference in my life as a mum. 

It has helped me to feel “normal” - like I’m not the only one struggling with (whatever this week’s “issue” is) being a parent!  The shared stories - at the exhibition, on the website, on the twitter “Make Dates” - have reassured me, uplifted me, comforted me, inspired me, helped me to laugh at myself, and allowed me to cry – in empathy, in joy, and yes in sadness. 

At times Story of Mum has simply kept me sane!  It has given me more confidence in my abilities as a mum, and helped me to find a balance between being a mum - and being “me”.  I have even felt able (with lots of lovely guilt-free “permission” and encouragement from Story of Mum), to attend a Mamas’ Retreat… 6 months ago I couldn’t have imagined myself ever doing that.     

It has been wonderful to meet, spend precious time with, and share thoughts, ideas, angst, and laughter with such a diverse group of women, face-to-face, and online at the monthly “Mamas Make Dates”.  I have never before been amongst such a group of supportive, non-judgmental mums with not a clique in sight!  I have connected with lots of truly fabulous women, and made friends that I wouldn’t have done otherwise.  Not only has this benefitted me, but also my daughter because of the mums and children that she has connected with, and the happier person that I am.  Truly, Story of Mum is a warm, welcoming and nurturing community which I am immensely glad to feel part of."

Pippa Lilley

I'm a mum and a... 

And as for me? Well, Story of Mum has reconnected me to my creativity, and helped me to find a new identity when I felt lost. It has supported me to make sense of the challenging transition from career woman to mother, and to become passionate about giving invisible mothers a voice.

It has boosted my confidence, got me doing things that terrified me but which felt amazing, and reassured me with humour and honesty when I feel like I'm the only mum in the world who messes up. It has helped me to make time to look after myself, and to overcome bad mummy shame at my horrendously messy house.

Projects like Love Mum Body have helped me to dramatically change my relationship with my body. And I have loved the opportunity to spend time and grow a project with my own inspiring mother (especially when I got to do that in New York...!).

Most of all, Story of Mum has connected me to an amazing global tribe of mamas that support me in feeling like I can do anything I dream of.

I hope it does the same for you, and I am so grateful to all of YOU.

Thank you for joining us on this amazing journey these past three years.


Come join our next #somum Make Date on Wednesday 9 April from 8.30 - 10pm GMT (find world times here). We have some more fantastic prizes for you! Find out more here.


Thanks to Andra Alexander, Ian Kingsnorth Pat Kelman and Chris Webber for the photos above.

Special events at The Exchange

We've got some more great special events coming up for mums at The Exchange in Penzance this month as part of our travelling exhibition - find out more below.

To book to come along for some networking or retreating, contact [email protected]. Places are limited and going fast, so jump in now!

PS everything is FREE because we love you. The forecast for cake is looking good too.

Find out more about our exhibition here.

flyer for events at the Exchange

Sharing our mama identities at BritMums Live

motherhood exhibitionI've just loaded up all the "I'm a mum and a..." photos I took at BritMums Live this weekend, and the gallery is looking amazing. Let the images scroll on by.

We are the same and we are different and we are all unique. 

It's powerful stuff - funny, thought-provoking, heart-breaking and inspiring, and I'm so grateful to all the mothers (and one brave widower) who have taken part so far.

The gallery will continue to grow day by day as "Story of Mum: Mums making an exhibition of ourselves" travels around England in real life, and the world online. Including a wonderful virtual tour - check out some of the posts so far here.

There are well over 200 contributions to "I'm a mum and a..." now and it's fascinating how some words are starting to come up more often than others...  

Us mums are often also dreamers, crafters, poets and artists, dancers, and there's a wonderful groundswell of writers.

There are nanas, daughters, friends, wives, and referees. 

There are some proud me's reclaiming their identities, and others on a journey to find themselves. 

We're addicted to chocolate, tired and crazy. And we're trying our best.

Visit the gallery here.

Read more about my experience of BritMums Live here.

You can add your own picture at any time by visiting the gallery and clicking on 'join in' (if it still says 'join us' you'll need to register with story of mum first - which doesn't take very long, and means you get to hang out with us some more which can only be a good thing...!)

mum and an ear wiggler   mum and a survivor    mum and bibs award winner    mum and education reformer

PS If you're visiting from BritMums Live! and want to find your own photo to see how absolutely beautiful you look (because, yes, you all did), you can scroll through the gallery or visit the BritMums page here that lists all of the pictures I took there.

PPS If you sign up for our newsletter you get a free book of mums' reward charts. You deserve them. Just saying...

Individual and small group Mamas' Retreats announced!

Exciting news! We are hosting a limited number of very special individual or small group retreats between 12 and 14 May at a spectacular Prussia Cove location, and we'd love you to join us!

Join a retreat for mothers with Story of Mum in Cornwall


You deserve some time for you.

You don’t believe that’s really possible.

You dream of having a room or a bed to yourself. Of having a clear space in your mind to think. Of looking at the sea and feeling the waves crashing below. 

Of stretching your well-used mama body without your children hanging from your arms. Of eating delicious health-giving food.

Of reconnecting with yourself again, in a supportive and creative environment. 

You dream of having the time to remember who you are.

We dream of that too. So we’re making it happen.

A few child-free hours. It’s a lifetime in the world of a mother.

It can change how you feel about yourself.

It can give you focus, reawaken a hidden passion.

It can remind you of what you love about your life. Of what you love about you.

Join us in Cornwall. In a stunningly located house by the sea. To take time for you. 

Join Story of Mum for an individual or small group retreat for mothers in Cornwall.

This year, we're offering a small number of individual or small group Mamas' Retreats between 12 and 14 May in a secluded beautiful coastal location situated between Penzance and Helston in Cornwall.

We’ll be staying in two houses in Prussia Cove: The Haven and The Granary – and using The Haven as our Mamas’ Retreat base. Shown above, The Haven sits looking out over the coast, a moment’s walk from the sea, banked by gorse-covered cliffs and surrounded by stunning walks and beaches.

Join a retreat for mothers with Story of Mum in Cornwall

You don’t need any special skills or experience to join us, you just need to be you. 

Join us at a Mamas' Retreat for:

 *  Space to hear yourself think

 *  Heart-opening creative activities

 *  Good food and laughter

 *  Wild and peaceful nature

 *  Reassurance that you are not alone

 *  A reminder that you are brave and beautiful and wonderful, flaws and all

 *  Delicious vegetarian meals

 *  Support to be heard, make shifts, reconnect with YOU, and move closer towards that life you deeply dream of.

You can choose from a variety of  possible individual or small group retreat formats:

 - Day Retreat: NURTURE

 - Overnight Retreat: NURTURE & NEST

  - The Ultimate Mamas Retreat: NURTURE, NOURISH & NEST

You can find out more about each of these offerings in the PDF attached below, or talk to us to create your own. (Download a high-res version or a low-res version with lower quality images...)

Join a retreat for mothers with Story of mum in Cornwall

If you choose an individual retreat, you’ll be the only participant. All that peace, space, and support just for you.

If you'd prefer a small group retreat, you’ll be able to bring a group of 2 or 3 participants to experience the retreat together, each staying in your own private room. We may be able to link you with others hoping to attend a small group retreat, but even better, how about joining up with some mama friends and all coming together?

At the moment, these are our only individual and small group retreats planned for the year, and we'll be offering a maximum of 3, probably less.

Read on, dream about coming, and then, book your place.

To find out more, read the document below. To book, contact [email protected] 

Let us save a place for you.

Many thanks to Porth-en-Alls, Prussia Cove for the lovely photographs!

My life is nothing like a fairy tale... and yet...

We had another lovely #somum Make Date this week, and some fabulous fairy tales were written as we chatted...

Share your real-life fairy-tale story with Story of Mum

The seven simple story-plotting questions that we asked during the Make Date (and over here on the activity page) are an easy but powerful way to capture the precious stories from our life - to remind us of where we are right now, what we've overcome, and why those challenges were so important.

Have a go, and share your stories with us over here.

We'd love you to doodle a fairy-tale book cover too, there are some crackers below - I'd buy them all!

Visit the gallery and read the storify below to discover the powerful, funny, moving mama stories we've been grateful to read this month - we'd love to read yours...

And don't forget, you could still win yourself a delicious chocolate egg from Fairy Tale Gourmet in our competition this month - enter over here.

Join #somum on Weds 11 March: Fairy Tales!

Join us on twitter on Wednesday 11 March from 8.30pm to 10pm UK time to invent your own fairy tale (and/or doodle your fairy tale book cover) at our next #somum Make Date on twitter.

You can find times in different time zones here

Join a #somum Make Date and share your fairy tales with Story of Mum

This month we're sharing stories from our lives as if they were fairy tales in My Life, the Fairy Tale... Pop on over and read those shared so far, and share yours with us...

Your fairy tale might be life-changing or silly, small or huge - you choose.  Our daily battles may not always feel epic, but the truth is, they are. 

Most importantly, sharing those stories of how we overcame the scary stuff, (eventually!) shows others that they can make it through. And that's true even if today's quest is simply to tackle the never-ending laundry pile.

We'll be completing some sentences to build a story together, and sharing fairytales about our lives at our #somum Make Date. Just add #somum to your tweets to find us and join in. We hope to see you there! 

As well as being able to get extra entries into our fabulous Fairy Tale Gourmet chocolate eggs competition by sharing your story, we'll be giving away a copy of Mothers' Milk's new book of fairytales at the end of the Make Date.

The Forgotten and The Fantastical edited by Teika BellamyWin a copy of The Forgotten and The Fantastical

Join in with our #somum chat on Wednesday and you could win a copy of this fabulous collection of fairy tales from Mothers' Milk Books: The Forgotten and The Fantastical.

"In this beguiling collection of fairy tales for an adult audience there is both the familiar and the unfamiliar. Here you will find modern twists on old favourites such as ‘Little Red Riding Hood’, ‘Pinocchio’ and ‘The Dream of Akinosuke’, as well as reinterpretations of ‘The Mermaid of Zennor’ and Arthurian legend. Original fiction has its place here too, with characters so vivid that they will continue to haunt you long after their stories have been read."

A winner will be randomly selected from those joining us and adding #somum to their tweets between 8.30 and 10pm on Wednesday 11 March 2015.

Fairy Tale Chocolate Competition

Win a Fairy Tale Gourmet Chocolate Egg with Story of Mum

As a rather delicious incentive to share your fairy tales with us this month, we also have some gorgeous hand-crafted chocolate eggs from the brilliant Fairy Tale Gourmet to give away.

You could crack open your very own Humpty Dumpty or steal a Golden Egg from the friendly giants in your house, (they need never know the egg was ever there, *cackles.*)

You can get free entries just for being part of our Story of Mum community, for tweeting about the competition, and of course, for sharing your fairytale in our gallery - so don't miss out on chocolate, find out how to enter and join in over here.

What is a #somum Make Date?

It's a chance for mums to get together on twitter and tweet while we attempt to do something creative - like doodlingtaking a photowriting poetrymaking stuff or even squidging plasticine.

We give ourselves some creative me-time and connect with other lovely mums. We do it every second Wednesday of the month and we would love you to join us. New friends are always very welcome.

You don't have to be a clever crafter, an artist or wordsmith. We're all about having a go regardless of talent or experience. Most of all, it's about getting together and having fun.

If you just want to chat, that's completely fine. If you just want to make something and lurk and never tell us you're there, that's fine too. We're just happy you're making time for you. 

Look forward to sharing fairy tales with you there!

Join our next Mamas' Retreat in March

Join us on Sunday 22 March 2015 for another delicious Sunday Morning Mamas' Retreat in Penzance, Cornwall. With Mothers' Day coming up soon, you could maybe even persuade someone to treat you to a gift voucher...

Let's come together to get ready for Spring with a spring in our step and a smile on our faces... (scroll down to book your tickets below)

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen Yoga

You'll finally take that time out you really need, and spend some creative time thinking about you for a change. 

 We'll treat our bodies well with some energising nurturing yoga, and eat delicious healthy soup as well as some treats...

It's soul nurturing for mamas...

It's time for us.

It's time out. To breathe. To stretch. To make. To be heard.  

You'll leave feeling supported, inspired, and ready to face whatever comes your way when you venture back into the big bold exhausting world of motherhood...!

But don't just take our word for it, here's some feedback from our recent Sunday Morning Mamas' Retreat attendees:

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen Yoga

"I loved how genuinely happy everyone was to be there, the quiet, yoga without a baby crawling on or underneath me, the food, being listened to and heard for 5 minutes was amazing!"

"It is rare, very rare, as a mum to find time for oneself, to give yourself the time and space, and permission, to open up, be honest and allow some magic to happen. The mama's retreats led by Pippa and Leif provide a nurturing, safe, fun and creative environment for real magic and healing to happen and for you to reconnect with you."

"The Mamas Retreat was an escape from motherhood for a couple of hours - a chance to reflect on the joy it brings, and a chance to give myself the space I needed to be myself. To acknowledge that when times are tough as a mum you are not alone."

"I left feeling rewarded with a relaxed state of mind and joyful, with the pleasurable experience of new friendships."

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen Yoga

"It's so easy to say we don't have time to do relaxing things but it's more about prioritising some time for yourself without feeling guilty, and you will most definitely feel the benefits from a morning at the retreat."

"The mamas' retreat gave me a chance to connect with other mums, share hopes and fears and feel much more positive about taking care of myself and my family. I have found it hard to meet people since moving to the area and the mamas' retreat was one of the most welcoming and supportive groups I've been to."

"A friendly, creative space to have a good stretch, relax and share thoughts and ideas with other like-minded women."

"Loved sharing stories, and having time and respected space to say whatever is on your mind. I love that it is a place for creativity - encourages blooming!"

"The relaxation of the yoga enabled me to relax into the whole experience and to engage with my inner thoughts and feelings more readily."

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen Yoga

"A chance to relax, reflect and breathe away from the stress of juggling a busy job with a long commute and my family (and the guilt that as a consequence I'm a bit rubbish at both!)"

"It's very easy to feel you belong at a mamas retreat. They're very reflective experiences, sometimes emotional but always with humour and thoughtfulness."

"I found the experience very profound actually, it exceeded my expectations. I think any mum needs to do this to re energise her mind, her body and her soul. We deserve it!"

"Very chilled out, safe and welcoming atmosphere. Perfectly planned, so ran very smoothly. Great mix of TLC for mind, body and soul. Also awesome food!!

"It made me realise that I'm doing ok considering all that had actually occurred during the year. Also pure, uninterrupted yoga - such a joy and a real treat. I felt a million dollars afterwards!"

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen Yoga

We'd love to see you there!

Tell me more!

No special skills or equipment required. You don’t need to be ‘creative’, or to have done yoga before. We'll provide the yoga mats, creative stimulation and the relaxation. You just need to bring yourself. 

We have a different theme and focus each retreat, and you're welcome to join us as often as you like. 

How many mamas will be there? Places are limited, so it won’t be a scarily big group – just a lovely comminity of mamas coming together to nurture ourselves and support each other. 

We have some mums who come to almost every retreat, and others who come just once. Either is fine with us - it's always a warm and welcoming crowd, so don't be frightened of your first time.

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen Yoga

Where? At Leif’s studio, Garbo House, Bread Street, Penzance

What about food? We’ll provide tea, treats, and lunch (including a delicious soup from the brilliant Kate Binnie)! Let us know as soon as possible if you have any special dietary requirements when you book your ticket, and we’ll do our best to meet your needs!

When?  9.30 – 1.30, Sunday 22 March 2015

How much does it cost? £25 plus £4.50 for lunch (total: £29.50)

NOTE: If you'd really like to come, but can't afford it, please do get in touch - we want as many mums as possible to have this experience and will do our best to make it happen at a price you can afford.

For terms and conditions, head over here.

Join a Mamas' Retreat with Story of Mum and Leif Olsen YogaVisit the Half Day Retreats page to find out more and hear from some MORE lovely mamas. They share a little bit more about what we do on a half day retreat, and why they love to come. 

We offer special early bird deals for Story of Mum members when we can, so make sure you've joined us over here and signed up for 'selected blogs' to be the first to find out!

When was the last time you did something to nurture YOU?

Don't miss out on this time for you - choose and buy your ticket by clicking on 'add to cart' below.

Sorry - no tickets remain for this event.

Take a moment to sign up here to be the first to hear about special offers and retreat plans...


Our next Sunday Morning Mamas' Retreats will take place on 7 June and 13 September.

Mamas helping mamas to make me-time

What happens when mums come together to remind each other that taking time for ourselves really matters? We actually take time out!

Make a Mama Me-Time Token with Story of Mum

This month, we've been making ourselves Mama Me-Time Tokens.

What would you do with a five minute mama me-time token?

How about a half hour token - thirty minutes of time just for you?

And dreaming even bigger, what about a whole day's mama me-time token?

Even just thinking about what you like to do is a simple way of making some breathing space for you amongst your busy day...

For me, the making of the tokens was as much fun as actually doing the things they said - I loved doodling each token, and taking that making time out for myself too.

What makes you feel more like you again, and what first step could you take to bringing a little bit more of that into your life?

Below you can read a storify of our last Make Date where we answered the questions above and shared our own Mama Me-Time Tokens. And afterwards, we encouraged each other to follow through - with early morning me-time cuppas, and proper lunch breaks.

How can we help you to take more time for you? Tweet us @storyofmum with #somum and we'll do our best to encourage you along too!

Because we want to inspire you to make more time for you, our competition this month is all about me-time too! You've just a few hours left to enter to win a Mama Me-Time Treat Kit - find out more over here.

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